Archive for January, 2010
Making Funeral Arrangements
One of the main components of comprehensive elderly planning is making arrangements for the funeral. Before you pass, it is advisable to indicate how you would like your remains to be housed, whether that is in a casket or an urn. If you decide that you would like a traditional burial, it is also advantageous to already have your plot picked out.
There are certain laws, rules and restrictions that are enforced by the FTC to ensure that funerals are dealt with properly. One of the main rules is that the funeral director must give you an itemized receipt that identifies all of the particular goods and services you are receiving. With a few exceptions, you have the right to choose the items and services in your funeral proceedings.
Dealing with Empty Nest Syndrome
When children grow up and leave the house, some parents experience what is known as empty nest syndrome. It is marked by a general feeling of loneliness and isolation by the parents. While studies have indicated that it is most often associated with mothers, it has been seen in both sexes and, as such, can definitely affect mothers and fathers alike. While many parents who are going to experience these feelings do so when the child first moves away, there are also reports that these feelings can return when the child is married.
In both instances, the role of the parent is reduced in the child’s life. The parent is no longer immediately needed or involved in the child’s life, and this is often seen as the root of the syndrome. Some have argued that it’s more common now than ever because the extended family has slowly been removed from western society, meaning elderly parents are often left living alone. There are several senior solutions that can help, including exercise, taking part in community events, and planning family get-togethers and reunions.
Proper Senior Planning
As people get older, they will inevitably begin to think about their passing and how their loved ones will have to cope and take care of the necessary tasks. When people are advanced in years, passing in a comfortable and welcoming environment is always a high priority. For years people have chosen to stay at home during their final days, but for myriad reasons more and more people are incorporating a hospital into their senior planning.
Despite the comfort and familiarity that your home affords, there are several advantages to the hospital. When you die at home, there is excessive paperwork and investigation to ensure that the person died of natural causes, which often leads to unexpected expenses. There will be some costs inherent in checking into a hospital, but the staff will alleviate the paperwork and ado that ensues after a person’s passing.
Proper Elder Care
My grandmother is 87 years old and still lives independently, but all of her children live in a different state. Having had medication mix-ups when emergency treatment was administered in the past, she has been cautious about traveling recently and has missed an important event or two. In order to ensure that she receives the proper medical care and attention, we have prepared an advanced medical directive.
If she were to require medical attention during a visit, this form would assist the hospital or urgent care center and ensure they do not make a mistake with her medications, allergies, or any other medical issues she may have. It also specifies what measures should be taken in a traumatic scenarios. A medical directive is an essential component in ensuring that the proper measures are taken in the event of an emergency.


